Catholic school leaders carry immense responsibility—not only as administrators but as spiritual shepherds. The work is sacred and weighty. That’s why taking time to pause, reflect, and reconnect with the true vine—Jesus—isn’t a luxury, it’s a necessity.
By Julie Widman, Ed.D | Friendzy Co-Founder
We recently had the gift of leading a principal retreat for the Diocese of Green Bay titled Bearing Fruit: Connected to the Vine. Inspired by John 15, the session invited leaders to reflect on God’s deep care and the spiritual nourishment found in abiding in Christ. Through Scripture, the imagery of the vineyard came alive: God is the Gardener, we are the branches, and through Him we are called to bear fruit.
But this wasn’t just a morning of reflection—it was an invitation into transformation.
We used the Johari Window, a leadership tool that invites self-awareness, vulnerability, and connection. Leaders explored their open, hidden, blind, and unknown selves in light of Christ’s love and call to growth.
And we celebrated. Because celebrating fruit—personal, professional, and school-wide—is vital. It reminds us that spiritual leadership is fruitful work. That even amid pruning seasons, God is working.
As Catholic school leaders begin or continue their year, this retreat offers a unique moment to slow down and abide. Imagine if your diocesan leaders could begin the school year with clarity, joy, and connection.
BIO | DR. JULIE WIDMAN, ED.D.
Julie Widman has learned that, fueled by prayer, coffee, and energizing music, anything is possible. By way of a Masters in Science degree from the University of Washington, Julie discovered her passion for supporting whole child development. Drawn into supporting the holistic development and well-being of students, in 2014, Julie co-founded Friendzy, a non-profit organization focused on providing school-wide programming that supports the character development and wellbeing of students through the lens of Scripture. Julie holds advanced certification in SECD leadership through St. Elizabeth University and finished her doctorate degree in Educational Leadership in April 2025.
Julie thrives when working in partnership with Dioceses and schools to provide direct support in fostering a positive campus climate and culture through Friendzy. Julie believes that teaching the biblical pillars of friendship will give students tools that will benefit them for a lifetime. In her time outside of leading Friendzy, Julie is an enthusiastic mother of two children, Shelby and Daniel, wife to Travis, keeper of a mini zoo of two energetic dogs, and an avid supporter of high school ministries.
